I was recently asked to give feedback of reasons I only or prefer dating interracially. I wasnt quite sure which way to think about this question. I decided to write it down here to see what my thoughts look like on paper.
For reasons I am not sure, I have been approached only by black guys in the past 2 years. I have dated and married other races and am attracted to different races. My reasons I will list are by no means all encompassing that entire race but merely the majority I have encountered.
I have come to appreciate and enjoy the forward, no fear approach black men have embraced. It tends to be subtle and respectful. They are more straight forward with what they want and what they like which is very refreshing. I have been told I can be intimidating which only tells me those are the ones I dont have time for anymore in life. I need strength in the other person to be equal or surpass my own so when I need to lean on someone they can support me. I have found this with them in ways I had not seen in other races.
There are definite benefits in the bedroom but not just limited to the stereotype of size, which in most cases is true. The strength to voice what they want is very sexy and even if we are not on the same page the respect is given for boundaries. No fear of being too out there or not enough and still voicing, where other races are more timid and afraid of the response they may get in return in my experience. The stamina is across age ranges and the older the better surprisingly and along with knowing what to do to please and adjusting as we go definitely stands out. Some think its a one stop shop and get offended when things dont work instead of understanding we all have different likes and needs where trial and error sometimes is part of the fun.
The passion that is given regardless of the casual or relationship status is something I had not experienced with other races generally. They are so into the moment that you feel so special and sexy which makes everything feel better all around.
In my experience I have now opted to chose black because of the above reasons although not locked in, only a preference.
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